.
On Sundays we’d drive
to the cemetery,
just me and Dad.
He’d talk softly
to his departed son
and arrange fresh flowers
on the grave.
Then standing tall,
he’d blow his nose
and tell me it was time
to put some miles on the car,
and we’d head east
for the country roads
where he’d point his corn cob pipe
at the tiny farms
and talk about Oklahoma,
then sing a chorus
of “The Strawberry Roan”.
Sometimes we’d pull over, and
he’d sniff the air and smile –
and then we’d turn around
and head for home.
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(c) 1992, 2018 Betty Hayes Albright
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d_yfmKMK4mo
Reblogged this on By the Mighty Mumford and commented:
A STRAWBERRY ROAN…WORTH BRINGING HOME 😀
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Thanks very much for the reblog, Jonathan!
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I LIKE GOOD POETRY…LIKE YOURS HERE!
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That’s very kind of you to say! 🙂
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I say what I see. 🙂
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ORT-ORT-ORT-!
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Some griefs are easier to bear than others. Burying a child – the universe is skewed and the stars disappear. My heart goes out to you.
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I appreciate that, Sharon. My dad seldom missed a Sunday, taking flowers to my brothers grave. I can still see him, carefully walking across the lawn to get fresh water for the inset vase (never step on graves, he told me – always walk between). And he’d tell Donny he loved him…. This was through the early and mid 1950’s. My mom rarely came with us. It was too painful for her, and for the rest of her life she hated cemeteries. I missed my brother but never imagined the depth of what they were feeling.
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The singing of the song really encapsulates the emotional punch here. (K)
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Thank you for reading the poem and listening to the song, Kerfe. My dad missed Oklahoma where he’d been born and raised, and that was the song he always sang to me when I was little, back in the fifties. Ah, nostalgia!
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It takes us by surprise sometimes.
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Yes, almost overwhelmingly….
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warm, bitter
sweet song.
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Thanks for listening to it, David. I appreciate your comment. 🙂
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A beautiful memory Betty 💜💝❤️. Is real, it real feels real. You speak of your father with deep affection.
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Oh yes, I really loved my dad. He’s been gone almost 21 years now and I still miss him. Those memories are still so vivid after 60+ 😱 years.
Happy birthday again! Hope you had a fun dinner. ❤️❤️
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Thanks for sharing such a special and gentle moment in your life.
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And thank you for reading and commenting, Charlie.
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Really enjoyed this poem about your dad remembering and sharing with you. My grandfather’s family was from Oklahoma originally but then settled in CA where he met my grandmother. Hope you are well.
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Whereabouts in Oklahoma was your grandfather from, Renee? My dad was from Broken Arrow near Tulsa.
Glad you enjoyed the poem, and I hope you’re doing well too.
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I really am not quite sure as my mother did not readily talk of them, although Tulsa rings a bell. I knew more of her mother’s family who came from Germantown,, PA. I am very diverse. Yes, I am well, thank you.
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Beautiful poetry! I love the images.
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Thanks very much, Nico!
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Blessings.
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Beautiful poem, Betty, with a touch of bitter sweet melancholie ❤
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Thank you so much, Francina. Yes, bittersweet, but after so many decades I focus mostly on the sweet.
❤️ My parents always made me feel loved through it all. ❤️🙂
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a beautiful memory of a sad snippet from life, I could picture it while reading it, as I always do with your pieces. touching and love this ❤
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Thank you very much, Kim! So glad you liked this post. It was such a long time ago…. After all these years I feel mostly tenderness for the memories – for my late parents. ❤️💕
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A hard thing for any family to live through. A tender memory, Betty.
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Thank you for reading this, Eliza. Yes, tenderness is the right word. Those were hard times (in the 50’s) but I’m past the sadness and just feel love for what my parents were going through. ❤️
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Beautifully written of a difficult time in your family, Betty, but it’s reassuring to read in your other comments how close you were to your parents. I love how you focus on the ‘sweet’ aspect now, instead of the sadness. Sending hugs, my friend..💗💗💗
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Hugs back to you, Lauren. 😊💕
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Vivid and moving. As ever not a wasted word and none missing.
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That’s kind of you to say, thank you! 😊
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How moving and lovely, Betty.
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Thank you, Cynthia, it’s always good to hear from you. 🙂
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I am always pleased when I stop in, Betty. Your honesty helps. Sending my best hugs.
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Thank you, Audrey, it’s always good to hear from you! Sending my best hugs back to you. 💕
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So poignant, Betty. Love this, as I can both see the strawberry roan (horse) sniffing the air, as well as your father. Brilliant. Aloha ❤
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Bela, thank you so much for your perceptive comment! ❤️💕
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😘
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I felt your heart as you words painted pictures Betty.. A sad lament tinged with a full yet broken heart.. ❤
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Thank you, Sue. This was a time back in the early 1950’s, and my dad passed away 21 years ago, so time has been healing for me. My mom and dad never really recovered from their loss though. I’ve found that no matter how philosophical we are, there’s no closure for the loss of a child. I’m grateful to you for your empathy. ❤️❤️
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💖🤗💖
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You will I’m sure recall that old adage “Show, don’t tell.” Well you hit the bull’s eye here, Betty, and no mistake. Such a vivid evocation.
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Thank you so much, Ben! 😊
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So atmospheric, I could almost taste every sensation! Lovely. Anita
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Thank you for your kind words, Anita! 🙂
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